This is just one person's interpretation, but perhaps you might find it helpful.

1. Opening Ritual

·         Clearly identifiable beginning

·         Putting the submissive in a submissive mindset

2. Anticipation and Build-up

·         Change of Demeanor and Voice

·         Describe or hint at plans - build anticipation

·         Setting the stage - music and lighting

3. The Scene

·         Bondage - vulnerability

·         Disrobing - vulnerability

·         Pain and Pleasure

·         Possible Role-playing

·         Verbal Interaction (Commands)

·         Humiliation

·         Element of surprise

4. The Ending

·         Praise and appreciation

·         Close time

5. The Debrief

·         The day after

·         A week later