On The Kinky Side (BDSM)

Safe, Sane and Criminal

23-09-2014 Hits:58 BDSM Related Articles Asj - Not Stated - avatar Asj - Not Stated

  We can all wonder what happened that night in a Manhattan apartment, the night that led to Oliver Jovanovic fifteen years to life. The principals involved certainly don't agree about...

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Member Holiday Gift

22-11-2014 Hits:63 Asj Site Related Content CJ - avatar CJ

  The Christmas Holiday is rapidly approaching.  Here at Asj, Santa's subbie elves are all busily scurrying about preparing a special Holiday gift for some of our special Gold Members.      On Thursday...

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From the Asj Library

Have you asked your Dominant?

06-04-2011 Hits:902 D/s Lifestyle Topics Unknown - avatar Unknown

 Have you asked             your Dominant... The question is often asked, how can you tell a real Dominant from a fake, how can you be sure this Dominant is the right Dominant...

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The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:00 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

Asj has long recognized the various styles or forms of Power Exchange Relationships.  Included in these is the Gorean (Gor) lifestyle.  Although originally based on a series of science fiction books by John Norma, modified a bit to allow for reality, Gor is a very viable form of the Lifestyle, both online and off.  Gor is considered to be a very black or white type structure, filled with protocols, traditions and rules.  It is also considered to be very sensual.  A girls obedience and loyalty in Gor is considered to be absolute. Asj’s Gorean Community is referred to as “The Sanctuary Vidrew” (SV).  If your interest is towards Gor, we invite you to visit the Gorean sections in the Library and to visit the SV Chat Room. 

The Asj Web Site hosts D/s and BDSM Lifestyle Classes and Discussions every Sunday and Wednesday evening at 9:00 PM (Eastern Time). Topics include all aspects of power exchange and BDSM relationships. These classes are free to attend and open to all members. Regardless of your lifestyle role, or level of experience, we invite you to attend.

In BDSM different toys may have different purposes than you might think at first guess.  As an example, most would think a ‘gag” is obviously for silencing a girl.  Did you know a ‘Ball Gag’ actually isn’t very useful to silence a submissive/bottom?

 

A ball gag's purpose is more of humiliation rather than silence; the wearer can still be heard, but it renders their speech completely unintelligible, distorts their facial features, and, should the wearer attempt to talk, excessive drooling will result.

 

As you begin to use various toys, try to learn a little bit about them and how they are best used before you use them.

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